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Summer Sounds

I wake up slowly.  I am not a morning person.  On most Saturday mornings, I like to sit with a cup of coffee on the wicker couch on the screen porch, and just listen as the neighborhood comes to life.  I woke this morning at 8:30 (or I should say that I got out of bed at 8:30 – I woke much earlier to Katie poking my side, begging to climb into our bed) at sat in the Summer warmth, shaded by the neighbor’s maple tree, and watched the sunlight from the rising run play on rhododendrons.  I am fortunate that Edith is an early riser – she is always up before me (not as a rule, simply as a fact) and I am spoiled in that the coffee is perked and waiting for me when I shuffle into the kitchen.  From there it is a short walk to the porch.

In the morning, I appreciate peace and quiet.  On a Summer morning on my porch, I listen to the birds as they flutter their wings at the feeders, to the familiar chirp of the cardinals, and the melody of the mockingbirds.  I listen as the squirrels clamber on the dogwood tree; at this point in mid-July, I am also greeted by the drone of this year’s cycle of cicadas.  Now and then I hear the footfall of morning joggers, or the rattle of a leash as a dog walker ambles down the street for their pet’s business trip.

This past week, Katie and I were discussing our favorite seasons.  She asked me what I liked about each of them, and which was my favorite.  I told her I like Summer a lot, for the usual reasons: extended daylight, warmer weather, more time spent doing things outdoors like taking care of our gardens, and vacations down the shore.  This morning I realized another reason: the sounds we only hear at this time of the year.  On a Summer day I will hear lawnmowers, water sprinklers, neighbor kids playing basketball in their driveways, or squealing as they splash in their backyard pools.  On some evenings there will be a party, with certain Summer music playing loud enough to hear several houses away.  There’s the ice cream truck, and the sounds of fireworks from a neighboring town.

I like the Fall for the colors and the crispness of the air; I like the Spring for the promise it brings of new life after a cold and harsh Winter, but all things considered I guess I just like Summer the best.

Surf City, Long Beach Island, New Jersey

The view from the deck this past weekend at Long Beach Island; the in-laws have rented a house on 18th Street, in the block on the beach, for the week in Surf City, while my brothers-in-law have rented a house on the beach around the corner from the in-laws.  We dropped in on Sunday morning, and spent the night before returning home late on Monday.  These photos were taken while relaxing and sipping mojitos, late Sunday afternoon…

The house the in-laws are staying in is one that they’ve rented on many previous summer vacations; I distinctly remember being at the house some 16 years ago back in the early 90’s while the Missus and I were still dating, hanging out her then school-aged brothers and sisters, who are now grown, some married, with multiple kids of their own.

W. and K. both had a great, albeit too short, time.  The shore was experiencing the effects of Hurricane Bill, and the surf was pretty rough with a wicked rip-tide, so there wasn’t much swimming going on.  W.’s swimming had really progressed this past summer, thanks to his twice-weekly swimming lessons at the Princeton YWCA, but he settled for the chance to try out his new boogie board along the shoreline. W., his Grandfather and I spent a few hours fishing off the bulkhead at Barnegat lighthouse, but again Bill’s effects were too much to allow us even a nibble before we decided to pack it in.  Later, he and Grandpa played mini-golf while K. played with her half-dozen or so girl cousins at her Uncles’ house on the beach.  On Monday morning, we sipped coffee on the beach as the sun rose over the Atlantic, before we took the kids to see Old Barney, where W. and I climbed up all 217 steps to enjoy the view from the top of the lighthouse.  The rest of the family established a compound on the beach, which we joined a little after lunch until late in the afternoon, spending time alternating between reading and collecting shells and starfish in the surf near the jetty. 

All in all, it was a nice time, and as much as I’m not truly a beach-person, it was great for the kids to spend time with their cousins at the same beach where my wife spent endless summers with her brothers and sisters, aunts, uncles, cousins, grandparents, and friends.  I like the idea of our kids growing up and building some of those same sacred memories of summers with family at LBI, and we’re already looking at renting a place with the rest of the family for next summer’s vacation.

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